It’s taken me a while to be able to expatriate my thoughts on why I had problems with this inherently contradictory statement/belief being taught in modern churches. First of all servant leadership isn’t logical at all. It most assuredly isn’t biblical either. The man was not made for the woman but the other way around. Now the man isn’t a tyrant BUT the Lord holds the man responsible for his household….this also undercuts the non-sensical concept of servant leadership. There’s a reason why the Bible says do not be unequally yoked..as a believer will be more likely to “look past” your outward flaws…while a non-believer most assuredly will not. The following audio talks about this concept and others that cause this false belief about “servant leadership” The audio link below gives a quick excerpt of a video that is no longer freely available but very well sums up what i call the Lie of Servant Leadership.